Failure Is Contagious

Beware Of The Forum Infection

Many people ask me why I don’t use forums or hate forums. There is a reason for this, when was the last time you’ve seen a millionaire, enjoying a successful life spending hours at a time in a forum?

Exactly, this something you do not see because people with incredibly rewarding lives, live those lives and don’t piss them away in forums. Forums tend to attract lost confused souls who look for confirmation of their reality through other lost souls. I want to make something clear. “Failure” is a state of mind of always being hopeless and blaming others. I am not referring to “feedback” which is learning from making a mistake.

Forums tend to encourage the behavior of failure. But there is something even more insidious going on. People have a need to “fit in” and be part of a “tribe”. Forums are mostly filled with people who are lost and have no direction. The best way for people to fit in is to imitate those around them. Do you follow what I’m saying? Even if you previously had no problems before, if you spend a long enough time in a forum full of lost people you yourself will become lost. The subconscious mind will determine its the best way for you to fit in.

This is why I encourage people to stay away form forums or people who want to infect you with their negativity. If you want answers it simple…